I've Hit My Prime and He is Sleeping
I am a married mid-thirty year old wife. My friends told me that these are my years to enjoy bedroom life. I didn’t believe them until recently. I am very much anxious to have sex. And to have as often as I can. I have a problem. My husband is not interested. He responds only when I go into bed next to him, he then gets the hint and complies. Yes he enjoys it, but he doesn’t initiate. He is a little bit older than I am.
I am so tired of initiating because he doesn’t seem interested in the beginning. I am so horny that when I look at any male, I want him in my bed. I don’t know what to do.
I am asking your men and women readers to please help me with this problem. Are there others out there like me?
Oh, before I forget. I give him oral, but he is afraid to “spill his seed” even though he likes it a lot. He wont reciprocate. He says it is not allowed. And gets nervous when I ask because he thinks I am becoming less frum. He is a very quiet person as well, and doesn’t think it is tzniusdik to talk about our problem with each other.
Please HELP!